Ewe, ooninawa kunye noodadewabo abazalani kwaphela, ngoko ayinakugqalwa njengento embi okanye engafanelekanga. Akumangalisi ukuba umfana omdala kunye nentombazana, ngaphandle kwamaqabane aqhelekileyo ngokwesondo kwaye phantse yonke imihla ejikeleze enye kwenye, ngequbuliso waziva enomdla kwinqanaba lezesondo omnye komnye. Ukuqwalasela ukuba intombazana iyayithanda (umfana ngoko akukho mbuzo), ndicinga ukuba baya kuqhubeka beqhuba olu hlobo lwento ngamaxesha.
Ukuba intombazana ivumile ukusebenza njengesicakakazi, iyazi kakuhle ukuba ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva kuya kufuneka ibhekane neqhude lenkosi yayo. Ukuba nobudlelwane obuhle nomxhasi, kumsebenzi wakhe, kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngapha koko, naye akayali imali. Ngoko emlonyeni wakhe wathatha ngokufanelekileyo, waza wamtsala ngokufanelekileyo. Kwaye uziva elungile kwaye ungumntu ongamaziyo. Kwaye akufuneki uxelele inkosikazi yendlu malunga nayo - ngoku sele inikwe iingcebiso ngeenkonzo ezongezelelweyo :-)
Ukulungiselela kakuhle iklasi, kodwa akukho malunga nokufunda. Umfundi afunda naye mhle ebusweni nasemlonyeni, kodwa ezi tyholo zisebhulukhweni zakhe ziyazonyanya. Ihlathi elininzi kakhulu. Ngamanye amaxesha ufuna inwele encinci yokutshintsha, kodwa akunjalo.