Ukwabelana ngesondo nomntu ongamaziyo okanye iqabane elitsha kunento entle. Yongeza kumava, kwanengcamango yokwenqatshelwe kwabaninzi iyavuselela, ibala amandla kunye nokucinga kweqabane. Ukwabelana ngesondo kwibhari kuphumla kancinci kwaye akuthandeki njengasebhedini. Ukwabelana ngesondo ezimpundu kunye nokuphululwa kwesi sibini kufanelwe yindumiso nokhuthazo.
Yhini mntase, ndingathanda ukundibamba omnye waba bafudumezelelwe kwizinto ezishushu. Abafana abancinci benza ukufudumala okukhulu komlomo kwaye emva koko kwaya kwiiklasikhi, kubonakala kukuhle.