Ngaloo ndlela abafazi babesoloko bezivumela ukuba bohlwaywe kwaye baqeqeshelwe ukwenza imigilingwane. Ukuba wayeswele ngesondo kunye nokuqala kubudlelwane, yiloo nto kanye awayifumana kumyeni wakhe. Umzimba wakhe otyebileyo uvuselela umyeni wakhe, uvumela yena kunye neqabane lakhe ukuba bafumane inzuzo ephezulu. Ithoyizi isetyenziswa kunye ngaphezu kwesinye, ndiyacinga. Ukubukela okuthandwayo, ubudlelwane obuhle kunye ne-twist phakathi kwesi sibini.
Umfazi omhle, kwaye i-mesh emzimbeni wakhe igxininisa ngokugqibeleleyo zonke iigophe ezikhangayo zomzimba wakhe. Kodwa kutheni umthatha okwesifebe esingapha kokuqonda. Andizange ndibaqonde abantu abehla kuyo! Kwaye ukuba ucinga ukuba iqabane lakho lihenyukazi elipheleleyo, kungcono ufake ikhondom okanye enye into! Phofu andiqondi ukuba uyamgezela umfazi ekhaya ngoluhlobo.