Ngoku yiloo nto endiyibiza ngokuba bubudlelwane bokwenene bomzalwana nodade—baliqela! Kwaye batsha ngobudenge, kuba udade ekugqibeleni wabuza ngokuvakalayo ukuba wangena ngaphakathi kuye. Kwaye ke - zonke iintshukumo ziphuculwe kwaye zikhunjulwe - kuyacaca ukuba abakwenzi okokuqala.
Into ibonakala kum, ukuba umama uya kwenza ezohlwayo kunyana wakhe, amanqaku akhe aya kuba mandundu ngakumbi. Kodwa ngokubanzi, indlela enomdla yesohlwayo, mhlawumbi bekuya kusebenza ngakumbi ukuba akazange amvumele ukuba aqhube.